I watch people as I help them become the type of people they want to be and the biggest thing I see is people's need to cling to who they are right now. This is so much crap that it makes me want to reach out and choke people at times. We look at at the world and see successful people and believe that they have always been the person they are right now. Or we take a look at something and believe that we don't stand a chance of being that also. This stinks so bad I can barely stay in the same room when I hear it coming out of someone's mouth. We need to banish this way of thinking if we are to ever move beyond where we are and attract and accomplish what we want and get to where we want to be.
We may look at a butterfly and think of how beautiful a butterfly is. We may think that a butterfly is just as beautiful before it emerges from it's cocoon as well. This could not be further from the truth. We never realize how much a worm or caterpillar must go through in order to become a butterfly and how much of a change there is in the process. The same is true for us. In order for us to live the life of our dreams, we must become the kind of person who lives that life. We stand no chance at all of having that life the way we are right now. If we did, we would already have that life.
We must be willing to go into our own cocoon of change and allows ourselves to transform into the type of person that we need to be. Of course, this won't happen over night. It takes time and constant effort to make that change. It takes learning and growth to become the kind of person you need to be in order to live the kind of life you long to live. No man in history has ever created the life of his dreams without first going through the process of becoming the kind of man it takes to live that life. There is no magic wand that you can wave and make that life a reality. There is no magic solution to creating that life. The only solution is to put the time and energy into your life that it takes to create the life of your dreams.
So get over it and start making some changes. Begin moving toward the person you need to be in order to get the things you want and in order to live the life you long to live. Stop making excuses for why you can't, or what you would have done if, or the million other excuses people use as reasons. There are always very few reasons for why something can't be done but a million excuses. The question is whether or not you truly want what you want or not. If you do, break outside of your comfort zones and start building that cocoon. If you don't, then that is ok too. Just keep doing what you are doing. Neither is right or wrong, but as you make it so and believe it to be.
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